In the end- you will want the big wedding IF you never had it

I was reading the blog on CNN.com and saw an article about Monica- R&B singer, extradonaire. And it was showing how she married again, but this time she had her lavish wedding.


This brought about a conversation in the office. We have seen over the years that brides and their grooms who have chosen to have a very intimate wedding, in their future, choose to have the "big" wedding. And those who choose to have a big wedding, in their future, have a small intimate wedding. 


We surmised that it has to do with a feeling of missing out, in both sides of the wedding spectrum. Like when you have a small wedding and your family and friends miss out. The big wedding is the time to party and celebrate in a BIG style.


In this lavish wedding-Monica and her husband, L.A. Laker- Shannon Brown, opted for a renovated 19th century cathedral in downtown L.A., to host the wedding that was attended by hundreds of family and friends, including Lala Vazquez, Carmelo Anthony, Kobe Bryant and Derek Fisher, reports People.

Monica’s two sons from a prior relationship, Rodney Jr., 6, and Romelo, 3, joined Brown’s son in a horse-and-carriage ride to the wedding ceremony.

Guests, who donned shades of blue for the event at the couple’s request, then joined the newlyweds for a “lavish” reception that included cocktails and a three-course dinner. Afterwards, hamburgers from Fatburger lined the grill for attendees to nosh on, and there was also a confection from Charm City Cakes.

We at Infinity Weddings & Events, want to congratulate the happy couple with long life of happy marriage- full of continued respect, trust, laughter, forgiveness and of course the strongest of all of these, LOVE!